7
Jul

Mixing Up Cloth Wipes Solution

The cloth wipes solution recipes I’ve found online have been a bit too complex or too strong for little Amélie’s bum…. so I finally perfected my own mix, and thought I’d share it with the world.  What you’ll need:

  • Wipe warmer (not totally necessary, a disposable wipes container will work too!)
    I use a Prince Lionheart warmer made for disposable wipes, but they also make ones for cloth wipes.
  • Freshness pad (for Lionheart warmer)
  • 12-24 Cloth wipes or baby washcloths
  • Essential Lavender oil
  • Tea Tree oil
  • Aloe Vera gel
  • Bowl to mix up solution

Just in case you don’t want to watch my video, here’s the steps:

  1. Wash out wipe warmer/container & freshness pad
  2. Fill bowl with warm water
  3. Put 1 drop of tea tree oil & 2 drops of lavender in the water
  4. Put 3-4 TBS aloe vera gel into water & stir solution
  5. Dip freshness pad into solution, wring out & place in bottom of warmer
  6. Dip your wipes in the solution & wring out & place in warmer
  7. Plug in the warmer!
  8. Place used wipes in your cloth diaper pail or a “wet bag” and wash in the laundry!

Tea Tree Oil – quickly penetrates the skin and useful for treating burns, scrapes, bites, stings, and various skin irritations. It’s also used to help prevent or treat yeast infections. Very effective fungicide, antibacterial and antiseptic.

Lavender – added to salves and creams to promote healing & as an aroma additive it eases tension, tiredness and feelings of depression.

Aloe Vera- soothes and protects from the inside and out. Although aloe vera is best-known as a topical skin protector, it’s also an outstanding digestive tonic and stomach soother. Aloe Vera  Gel is suitable for internal and external use.

13
Jun

Amélie’s Growth: 3 months

20
May

Amélie: baby learns to kick

I like to take sequence shots and laugh at them later on in the day as I preview my pics in iPhoto.

13
May

Amélie’s Growth: 2 months

1
May

A new family, a new family portrait

At 1.5 months, Amélie Soleil took her first professional family portrait.  She didn’t behave too good, but our family looks pretty slick, eh?

24
Apr

Amélie’s Growth: 6 weeks

13
Apr

Amélie’s Growth: 1 month

5
Apr

Epidural Reminders

photo/japajoe

As I climbed up and down the stairs slowly, contracting after each trip up and town, I thought that if I wined long enough and loud enough, my midwives would let me go to the hospital.  By 8pm, 19 hours after active labor began, if my midwives had given me the option to get a C-section, I would have jumped for it.  They weren’t push-overs.

I knew that the practices hospitals commonly practice during labor were not for me, thus I went with a home-birth.  However, by the time my midwives were throwing this natural induction technique and that natural induction technique at me, just so I’d have closer excruciating contractions, an epidural didn’t sound so bad.  I’m so happy they knew that I’d forgotten what kind of birth I wanted.

Reading about epidurals again, 7 weeks after labor, I’m SO thankful for my painstaking experience and just thought I’d remind mamas and future mamas why epidurals aren’t all they’re cracked up to be:

  1. Epidural medication gets to the baby. The anesthetic crosses the placenta, is absorbed by fetal tissues, and the concentration rises with the duration of the epidural.  One group of researchers measured umbilical vein levels of anesthetic at one-third of maternal blood levels.
  2. Epidurals retard labor progress. Studies consistently show that women who have epidurals have longer labors, and as a result, they are more likely to have oxytocin, instrumental deliveries, and cesarean sections.  Epidural anesthesia disrupts labor’s feedback mechanism.  In an unanesthetized woman, messages from stretch receptors in the cervix and upper vagina stimulate the pituitary gland to secrete more oxytocin.  This increases the tempo of labor.  Later, surges of oxytocin create the urge to bear down.  Epidurals also hinder the rotation of a posterior fetus.
  3. Epidurals deprive women of a sense of mastery over labor. Studies show that the key to a positive labor experience is mastery, and that how a woman experiences her labor has a profound long-term impact on her life.  With an epidural, the woman no longer plays an active role in her labor.
  4. By minimizing the pain of labor, epidurals deprive woman of labor pains’ beneficial effects. At the time of birth, a woman’s level of endorphins, the body’s natural painkillers, are found to be 30 times higher than those in non-pregnant women.  Endorphins engender feelings of pleasure and joy.  Since endorphins are secreted in response to pain,by eliminating pain, epidurals also abolish the endorphin response.  Pain also guides a woman in labor.  Typically, the positions and activities that she finds the most comfortable are also those that promote good labor progress or help shift the baby into the optimal position for birth.

To read more complete information on epidurals, check out Mothering Magazine:
•  Epidural Epidemic
•  The Hidden Risk of Epidurals

3
Apr

Amélie’s Growth: 3 weeks

20
Mar

Happy Birthday, Amélie Soleil

On Wednesday my midwife’s apprentice said she felt Baby would be arriving any day.  “She will?” I questioned, unaware of her psychic abilities.  But Stephanie was only being practical… it was 11 days past Baby’s due date, and only 3 days were left before I had to have Baby in the hospital, by Colorado law.  Still, I had no concern that my home-birth plans wouldn’t work themselves out.  I was already 3cm dilated that Wednesday, and began having mini-contractions on Thursday.  They felt good.  Convinced that I was going to have an orgasmic labor, I looked forward to a psychedelic birth.

The entire week before Amélie was born I did everything my midwife allowed me to do in order to induce labor naturally; I ate spicy food, I walked, I took 3x the suggested dose of fish oil, and I had sex… but Baby stayed in her warm womb as long as she could.

Friday morning at 12:35 the real contractions began.  I’d hoped I wouldn’t refer to them as “contractions”, but as an “interesting sensation”… but I wasn’t that calm.  They were not orgasmic – they were not enjoyable at all – and the panic began.

This is the story of Amélie’s arrival.  These photos aren’t the pleasant homebirth pictures where mama has her sports bra on and is doing hypno-birthing breathing exercises in peace.  Read more & see more at your own risk… Read the rest of this entry »